When Ashley I. arrived in Paradise she allowed herself three cries. Minutes in Mexico the first cry was had after Ashley finds out Caila and Jared are dating. She feels backstabbed by Caila. Jared is at a loss for words. He has made Ashley cry far too many times in the past and tries to encourage her to pursue other options. This just provokes more tears and running mascara. One cry down, two more to go. From Bachelor in Paradise Season 3, Week 3, Night 2. Watch all-new episodes of Bachelor in Paradise MONDAYS & TUESDAYS 8|7c.