After Ashley tells Jared Caila's feelings aren't genuine for him, Caila pulls her aside to set the record straight. Caila explains she has been hesitant regarding Jared but it's also really hard to take the relationship to the next level while Ashley is still obsessed with him. She tries to encourage Ashley to turn her attention towards other men in Paradise. Caila starts to wonder whether or not being with Jared is worth the constant Ashley drama. From Bachelor in Paradise Season 3, Week 4, Night 2. Watch all-new episodes of Bachelor in Paradise MONDAYS & TUESDAYS 8|7c.